Monthly Archives: February 2016

Gerald’s Thoughts on the India Journey

This was written by my husband, Gerald:

“It Depends Which Day You Ask”.  This was the answer we received from one of the Non Resident Indian doctors working at the Gandhi ashram, when we asked how they felt about their experience there.  And in many ways, that is how this journey went for me.  This was my eighth time in India, and coming so close on 2014’s fabulous visit, that was a tough standard to look up to.

We began in December in Goa, and sitting on the beach watching the sunset,drinking a cold Kingfisher beer, it felt like we had never left.  After following the incredible Theyyam ritual in Kerala, we arrived in Ahmedabad, where I had volunteered to teach art to children at Manav Sadhna, the foundation based on Gandhi’s vision “Love All,Serve All”.  The people I met there, dedicated, selfless completely devoted to improving the lives of those less fortunate, have made a strong (and hopefully lasting) impression on me.  Through the art, I was able to bring some light into these children’s lives, and give them a sense of achievement.  The last day there when I set up an exhibition of the work they had done, seeing their faces was quite wonderful.  But the city we were staying in (Ahmedabad) was truly one of the most awful places I have ever spent time in.  And bit by bit I lost my desire to go out and explore after the day’s teaching.

Leaving Ahmedabad for Udaipur, our favorite city in India, was like escaping from jail.  So many friends there and so many good memories.  And then finally, somewhere new, where we hadn’t been before, the source of the Ganges at Haridwar and Rishikesh in the foothills of the Himalayas.  Incense burning,bells ringing,chanting of mantras,wandering Sadhus,all the India I love.  For me, travel is still “discovery” of new places and peoples and there was less of it on this journey.  What makes India so glorious are the “wow” moments, and perhaps because so much of this journey was going back to places we had been, there were fewer of them than last year.

We returned to our beloved Goa for the final days, to warm up, eat the great food, enjoy the company of old friends and indulge in the warm waters of the Arabian Sea.  And each day I asked myself,if my wondrous journeys to India had run their course.  Somehow it felt like working on my collage, when a certain point comes when adding more papers no longer improves the overall piece.  I always tell my students that you need to know when to let go.  For the first time, I did not come home counting the days until my next visit.

And yet…as I am working on my book of drawings and watercolors,the passions and energy of this fabulous country and culture stir inside of me.  I can still taste all the wonderful spices,and see the smiles of all the many friends we have made there over these years.  So, who knows?  There is still the East to explore,the mountains,the tribal areas,the totally different cultures.  Are there still “wow” moments waiting for me?  Who knows?  Will I go again?  It depends which day you ask.

Namaste

 

 

 

Sadhus on Parade

 

sadhu covered in ashes

Rishikesh exploded onto the Western scene when George Harrison and the Beatles came here to gain enlightenment at the Maharishi Mahesh Yogi’s ashram in 1968.  We know at the outset that it will be more tourist oriented than Haridwar,but our first impression is one of extreme disappointment. On the narrow, unpaved lanes on the way to our guest house we pass rubble, varying sized mounds of cow dung and dog poop.

After dropping our bags in the room,we head out to explore the town. Sandwiched between posters advertising ” emotional block treatment” and ” Bliss of Breath”, are the “German Bakery” shops. (Dating from the hippie days in Katmandhu, they specialiize in western favorites such as chocolate cake and apple pie) Advertisements for yoga classes, yoga teacher training courses, meditation,Ayurveda and esoteric treatments are papered on entrances,walls and poles. Too many Westerners here for my taste.  I want Sadhus! Sadhus are a uniquely Indian phenomenon. Men, often highly successful,renounce their worldy possessions and wander.They depend on the generosity of others to survive , and are considered holy men.

We beat a hasty retreat to the rooftop terrace of our guesthouse overlooking the Ganges, with a spectacular view of the mountains.


 

 

Today is another day and a completely different picture emerges. On our way to eat breakfast down the hill from our guesthouse ,we pass one of the many ashrams. Big cars are parked inside and a beehive of activity is going on. Turbaned sadhus clothed in saffron colored robes are mingling with devotees dressed in white. I look for someone who might speak English and ask what is going on. “Guru happy birthday.  Rich people bring donations. After Satsang everyone come eat.”

After eating  breakfast my mood changes. We wander through town, passing Kashmiri souvenir shops selling pashminas and jewelry,and  more German Bakery signs.  Further along, the scene becomes more Indian- stalls frying spicy aloo tiki (mashed potato patties), chai wallahs (tea sellers), and women selling a kind of fruit like a guava.

As we walk back, I notice that all the sadhus coming in our direction are carrying big bundles and packages. First I joke that it must be sadhu shopping day, and then it hits me. They must be giving out food at the “birthday guru’s ashram”.  I almost trip over myself trying to get there before I miss the action.

Crossing the footbridge over the Ganges, my eyes pop out of my head. I can’t believe what I am seeing. Hundreds of sadhus are lined up against the wall leading to the entrance of the ashram. Mixed in among them are spaced out beggars- smoking hashish through a pipe.

 

 

Hauling the goodies

 

I can hardly contain my excitement as I inch my way through the crowd.  The grizzled faces and tattered clothing tell the story of a hard life. These men(and the rare woman) are less fortunate than the ones I saw with the packages on the way here, and they are relegated to the back of the line.  I would love to photograph each medieval face- but it’s not possible. The suffering is too raw and personal. The ashram has a security guard with a stick to control the crowd should things get out of hand.  If I give just one person some money there would be a riot.

Every evening on the Ganges there is a ceremony called Ganga Aarti, to bless the sacred river.  We were warned that the one here in Rishikesh was small and geared to foreign tourists and western ashram people-but decide to go anyway. Organized by Pramath Niketan Ashram, the service is conducted by the novices, and like the one in Haridwar, is intimate and moving.  The faces of the young men and boys, some in deep meditation and prayer create a strong sense of community with the assembled group.

As we walk back to the guest house when it ends, we can see the flickering lights and hear the chanting of other Ganga Arti that are going on across the other side of the river.

Another day in Incredible India.

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